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Over the years, I’ve had many favorite tools. It really depends on what I need or rely on the most at any given time.

Right now, I’m having a lot of fun with the memo: Never cope, always handle. It reminds me to stay actively engaged in my relationship with entities, and to never shrink myself or suffer because of my awareness of them—something I did for years before discovering Talk to the Entities.

When you cope with something, you’ve already decided that the thing, person, or entity is more powerful than you—and that your only options are to hide, fight, or diminish yourself.

But what if, by handling whatever entity or perception shows up right away, you could change everything in a heartbeat?

Once, I had a client who was working incredibly hard on his business—24/7. He had great skills, yet whenever he worked for himself, he never seemed to earn enough money nor be successful.

He felt constantly stuck, with no real results, and held back by something he couldn’t quite identify.

Although he was quite skeptical at first, he chose to book a session with me. I began by asking him questions about his life and work. It turned out that he earned a lot of money when working for others, but almost nothing when working for himself.

As I facilitated him and explored his world together, we eventually became present with his grandfather, who had passed away when my client was only six months old. Even though my client never got to really meet his grandfather, he told me he had always felt deeply attached to him.

What we discovered was powerful: as his grandfather had spent his entire life working as an employee, he was trying to protect my client by holding him back from creating a business. To the grandfather, running a business didn’t feel safe—it was too risky. So from his perspective, he was trying to protect his grandson from failing by energetically pushing him toward “secure” jobs.

During the session, I realized just how strong our beliefs and points of view can remain—even after death. Just because someone has passed on doesn’t mean they suddenly become conscious. Instead of simply being present and contributing to what my client was choosing for himself, the grandfather was unintentionally trying to impose his own ideas of what was right and safe.

He was using all his strength to stop my client from stepping into business, which explained the heaviness and the constant sensation of being held back —by something, or rather, someone.

Through facilitating their relationship, the grandfather became aware that what he was doing wasn’t actually helping his grandson. We gave him the choice to either support his grandson in business or step back and no longer interfere.

A few months later, my client reached out to tell me that his business had started to thrive after our session, and that he was finally experiencing ease and flow in what he was doing.

What I truly wish for people is to demystify the spirit world—to take the seriousness, the heaviness, and the judgment out of it. These are the very things that keep us stuck and make us be at the effect of what we perceive.

What Talk to the Entities has taught me—and what I’m deeply grateful for—is to see everything and everyone for what they truly are, without judgment or reaction. Whether it's an angel, a demon, or an aggressive entity, reacting or labeling them only takes us out of presence and our own power.

This methodology empowers you to be in total allowance and to handle anything—or anyone—you might ever encounter, with clarity and ease, which is such an amazing gift.